DON'T RUSH INTO MARRIAGE

Sincerely speaking, my wife can bear witness and a very few people closer to me here in Lagos and in Abuja, l receive a lot of messages daily to the point that I have tried to limit the rate at which l respond to messages in my DM but trying it, it's always as if "l am losing the presence of the Holy Ghost in me".

All l pray for on this matter is, Lord, please, just give me the strength daily to attend to these lives/souls for tomorrow isn't mine 

Some cases are just serious and, after you have counselled, all we want people to do is to exercise patience and faith in the Lord Who cannot fail, but some times, it appears God coming late to men, but God's time is always the best.

Kindly go through the below from my DM_ from abroad_ not even a Nigerian and we've never met once one-on-one.

"Daddy, is it bad to marry someone,not necessarily that God led me to him? Someone that my heart can just go along with?

Daddy, l believe God leads, but in my case, it is different. I have been praying for the will of God in marriage, but nothing is really coming forth. The people l thought I was led to, it seems they are not interested and maybe it was all my thought, maybe God didn't even lead me. 

I am confused, l think I will just marry anyone that my heart goes along with and he is interested.

Daddy, this life is vanity. Let me marry anyone that my heart goes along with, as long as he is a true believer.

Wait until when? When will He answer? I can't wait until I am old and suitors will be no where to be found. I know God leads, but in my case it's different."

THOSE ARE THE WORDS! I HAVE COUNSELLED AND COUNSELLED AND STILL TRUSTING GOD, BUT THIS DAUGHTER OF ZION SEEMS TO BE GIVING UP.

Please, people of God, join me in prayers on her behalf, please and please.

DON'T GIVE UP ON GOD FOR HE WON'T GIVE UP ON YOU_ Have faith in God. 

            Segun Okeowo AJAYI 
           © King David's Pen 🖋️

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