BEWARE OF RED FLAGS DURING COURTSHIP

BEWARE OF RED FLAGS DURING COURTSHIP 

I learnt (read) of one lady whose husband refused anyone visiting her while she was pregnant. 

It was strictly her alone at home from morning till evening when her husband would come back, before she would see another person one on one.

The man also refused her registering for antenatal. 

According to the issue, his denomination doesn't believe in hospital or medications or medical doctors and anything related to that. 

It's strictly like the Hebrew women by the mothers in the church to come during child labour.

SADLY, ACCORDING TO THE WHOLE STORY, SHE EVENTUALLY DIED DURING CHILD LABOUR.

          A TRUE LIFE STORY IT WAS

Please, dear single brothers and sisters, WATCH and PRAY as you are preparing to get married. 

Courtship time is not romantic time. Courtship time is not the moment to suspend your brain in the name of "l am in love... I love him/her." 

Please, ask questions. While s/he is talking, watch reactions to your questions and be diligent like a psychologist to observe and read body languages during conversation.

Being from the same denomination or from different denomination is not enough. 

Your beliefs system individually really matters. 

If you don't believe in the same thing_ manner of prayers, worship, savings, careers, ministries, child upbringing, etcetera.

Please, l am begging you all, as you are praying during courtship about your marriage or ministry or career (for the future), whenever any question comes to your mind to ask him/her or whenever you are together, please, don't sweep it under carpet, ASK and WATCH while responses are coming.

DON'T BE CARRIED AWAY WITH EMOTIONS DURING COURTSHIP.

Sisters, bowing your head when discussing in the name of shyness won't help you at all. I know you are not suffering from "self confidence". 

See, "oju loro wa" (true discourses require eyes contact). Look into his eyes and face situations by taking the bull by the horns. 

If you keep bowing down your face (being shy) now, sooner or later, you will open it when realities dawn on you.

Be courteous to each other when asking questions or responding to discussions. Being arrogant in character or attitude or words is not a virtue but a vice... It shouldn't be said about you, beloved of God.

I pray for you singles, MAY EMOTIONS NOT BLINDFOLD YOUR SENSE OF REASONING IN THE NAME OF "I AM IN LOVE" IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN 🙏

               Segun Okeowo AJAYI 
               ©King David's Pen 🖋️

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