MARRY FOR: 💕 DIVINE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE 💕

HAVE YOU EVER HEARD MARRIED WOMEN SAYING: 
"If he likes, let him come home or not, that's not my business. What concerns me is that he pays the bills...his presence at home has nothing to do with me..."?

The problem, more often than not, is "not doing things together over time as a couple"_ praying together, eating together, cooking together, going out together (even if it's church services not necessarily going to eateries), playing together like two best friends, chatting with each other when one is not around, sometimes helping him or her to dress up as if s/he is your child, doing video calls when one has travelled and may not come back after some days, helping each other to cut nails, man helping wife to loose her hairs once in a while, etcetera.

Once these things and others l don't really want to mention here are not done consciously and deliberately over time, they get far away from each other spiritually, emotionally and psychologically no matter how physically they are always together at home.

How will a spouse be at home, no tickling, no joking, no eating together, no cooking together, putting his or her head on your laps while resting, watching or listening to good movies or programmes together, laughing together, crying together when the need arises?

Marriage is not barracks or office or church where we are official among colleagues and co-workers in the church.

It's those things that keep them to be seeing each other_ hoping, rejoicing in their hearts and minds alive.

Once they have someone they chat more or discuss with more or confide in more, that's just the beginning of the end of such a marriage.

💞 LORD, WE ONLY NEED YOUR HELP AS CHRISTIAN COUPLES IN THIS GENERATION 💞

Singles, please, divine unconditional love will bring you into marrying your friend_ gist partner and prayer partner, not the one who doesn't care about your emotions, feelings, wellbeing... SEEK THE LORD🙏

If during courtship, she or he can't be your friend_ gist partner and prayer partner_ what will now happen after wedding when you would have given birth to two to four children and you are both occupied physically and mentally with meeting up with tasks at home, work and ministry?

#MARRY_FOR:
💕 DIVINE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE 💕

LORD, PLEASE, HELP MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS, YOUR SONS AND DAUGHTERS, WHO ARE PATIENTLY WAITING FOR YOU TO GUIDE AND DIRECT THEM ON WHO TO MARRY IN JESUS' NAME.

© King David's Pen 🖋️

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