QUESTION AND ANSWERS FOR THE MARRIED (2)

QUESTION AND ANSWERS 
      FOR THE MARRIED (2)
Please, what can possibly make a woman starve her hubby sexually or what can make a man starve his wife sexually?

ANSWER 

A lot of things can be responsible for a woman to lose interest in sex. I will just bring few forth:

1. For a woman, sexual intetcourse is more emotional than physical. Men are easily turned on by the physical. 

A woman wants to be loved and cherished. You don't snub a woman during the day and then turn a 'lover boy' suddenly in the night. It won't work. 

Most women  will not respond to such overtures. They feel used by their husbands. Where some respond, it will be a 'do your thing and cover me back' affair. 

Christian husband should learn how to be romantic. Flirt with your wife.  It is not a sin. 

When you both meet on a tight passage in the house, as you are trying to pass each other, brush your bodies, gently crush your bodies against each other. Plant kisses, etc. 

A man should get to a point where even a tap on her wife's body, a straight  look on her eyes send the wife to dreamland! 

The Bible commands men to love their wives. Not doing so leads to so many problems clearly evidenced by dead sexual life.

2. Another thing is bad and unhygienic habits resulting in bad odors. E. g.

- Not brushing teeth and bathing regularly.
- Wearing the same cloth soaked with sweat for long without changing it and going to bed with such.
Smelling nice is not exclusively for women.

3. Long ejaculation: the major cause of this is sexual enhanced drugs. These should be avoided as much as possible. They adversely affect the hearts and lead to long ejaculation which leaves a woman disoriented and physically exhausted each time. 

When your wife notices this is happening to you, she will run from sex as much as possible. 

4. When a woman enjoys sex with her husband, she will always look forward to it. So men, learn the art of good sex. PLEASE DON'T WATCH BLUE FILMS. VERY, VERY DANGEROUS PHYSICALLY AND SPIRITUALLY.

                  ©Adedoyin Akinniyi

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