WHEN HE WANTS SEX BEFORE WEDDING

#SOMEBODY_ASKED_THIS_QUESTION

Plz help me post and hide my id... I'm from a christian home and I'll be 29 this year.. I've lost abt two relationships because I choose to do my dating based on God's view of dating and marriage..

 No sex Until marriage and all that but the guys are not ready for such and this last one always complain because I'm not always available when he needs me we live in separate towns though..

 I was always too scared to visit as often as he wanted me to because of work and my people.. I live with my brother who is a pastor even when I visit the last guy after two days of being away my brother will call to remind me abt the will of God that why should I spend so much days like three or four days in the house of a man that hasn't married and I'll just get confused and the guy will ask what happened and I'll say nothing but my mood will change automatically long story due to one issue or the other I lost him..

 Now I met a guy here on Facebook and he came to our house because I insisted he visit first for security reasons so that my brother will know him.. My brother does not have issues with me being serious with a man but he doesn't want me to fornicate first but the guys are just far from this view of relationship i also don't want to sin against my God because of a man.. 

Now the one that came to see me from benin wants me to move in with me because he doesn't believe in distance relationship, he prefer living with the woman he's dating so that he can take his time to know the in and out of the girl before marriage and now I'm so confused I haven't visited him once I don't know anything abt this guy and im even scared to tell my people that I want to move in with a guy because I know they won't agree.. 

Plz help me what do i do NB i'm praying to God to bring my husband because i really want to settle down and have my own family... Thanks  and I'm  sorry for the long write up.

                #BELOW_IS_MY_RESPONSE

IF YOU HAD SAID YOU WERE NOT A CHRISTIAN, MAY BE I WOULDN'T HAVE ADVISED YOU BCOS ADVISING AN UNBELIEVER ON MATTERS PERTAINING CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE AND FIDELITY BEFORE WEDDING IS LIKE POURING WATER INSIDE BASKET

NOW, FOR YOU AND ANYONE WHO CARES TO LISTEN AS A CHRISTIAN
1. Sex before marriage (including foreplays and physical romance) is a sin_ first before God then to your body, which is the temple of the Holy Ghost.

2. Living with a man who has not paid your bride price is disrespectful to your parents. HONOUR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER...

3. What happens if he doesn't marry you eventually? 90% of such guys end up marrying another. THINK ABOUT THE SHAME AND EMOTIONAL TRAUMA.

4. If you get pregnant in the process, think of the consequences that may follow. Abort? You become a murderer.

5. ABOVE ALL, THINK OF THE ETERNAL CONSEQUENCE OF DELIBERATELY DISOBEYING GOD 

Any man asking you to cohabitate and or copulate with him before paying your bride price is a wicked man. He has neither respect for God nor your parents nor you. RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE.

Your husband is coming. Wait upon the Lord and your strengths shall be renewed.

I DECIDED TO SHARE HERE IF ONE OR TWO PEOPLE CAN GAIN SOMETHING FROM THE WHOLE STORY AND POSSIBLY FROM MY RESPONSE.

Thank you all for reading.

                    ©King David's Pen 🖋️

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