LET'S NOT BE WICKED IN THOUGHTS

ON HAKIMI AND THE LADY

I didn't want to really write on this here, but as the heat of the matter goes down steadily, l decided to address real Christians because of my comment on a sister's post.

Christians should know they are not directed like unbelievers.

Hakimi did this before he got married when he was still a teenager (a minor) possibly because of the fear of what he has seen happened to athletes ahead of him.

Hakimi or the lady are not Christians. The Constitution that guides true Christians' life and marriage is not what guides their lives and marriage. Hakimi's mother is neither a Christian too. If she was, after her son got married, the right thing for both of them to do is to either make the wife next of kin to his possessions or both of them agree and use their first child's name (male or female) because of unforseen circumstances in the future. God forbid sudden death in our marriage in Jesus' Name. Amen.

It's also absurd for a teenage boy (19) to marry an adult lady in her thirties.

The issue of the cheating allegation against her is yet to be verified when she served him this divorce letter. Obviously something is fishing somewhere and we shouldn't let gender biasis becloud our sense of judgement as Christians.

 I am newly aware that she has two children for him within the two to three years of their marriage (but while her allegation on infidelity is yet to be verified, went for a divorce with the notion to get 50% of his hard earned possessions.WHY THE DIVORCE? 

THAT'S THE LIFE OF UNREGENERATE PEOPLE

Again, true Christians know why they are married and prayerfully, without covetousness and mindset/fear to divorce anytime rule their hearts.

Those who go into marriage with bad mindset must have reasons to get bad luck  in the marriage. You are what you think.

       LET'S NOT BE WICKED IN THOUGHTS

               
 Segun Okeowo AJAYI
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