LOVE, MONEY, CHARACTER

#QUESTION:
What if the guy does not have money and does not have good attitude plus genuine love for you, what is there to love about him biko?

                       #MY_RESPONSE 
Absolutely, there's nothing to love about him, biko, except to love him with the love of Christ (never hate him). May God help his life, save his soul and transform his attitude.

However, there's the place of true love and financial capacity not someone with bad attitudes and characters.

Many waters cannot quench love (true love)

If a man gives his whole house (luxury or empires) it can't still buy true love.

Love is like fervent fire and cannot be put off.

When two people are truly in love, forget whatever you have or want to give to the other, it means nothing to them, in fact, she can't even see you not to talk of seeing what you want to give her.

Exemplary, citing two people, two teachers in the 60s-80s when teachers were seeing as poor, unlike today where there are SOME teachers who are doing better financially and materially than SOME lawyers, bankers and even medical doctors.

Consider mummy Folu Adeboye (RCCG) and Evangelist Alaba (Gloria) Mike-Bamiloye (MZFM).

These two women left lawyers, medical doctors, bankers, even suitors based abroad to marry these great men of God who they never knew would be greatly used of God like we are seeing today, but like the biblical Ruth, followed genuinely true love, walking by faith like Abraham and God has finally honoured their faith.

TRUE LOVE STILL EXISTS, THOUGH VERY FEW, AND WE ALL KNOW THE WAY TO HEAVEN IS NARROW AND ONLY FEW ARE FOUND THEREIN.

Segun Okeowo AJAYI © King David's Pen 🖋️

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