IT'S IMPERATIVE YOU MARRY WHO YOU LOVE

HE WROTE THUS

"DON'T MARRY WHO YOU LOVE BUT LOVE WHO YOU MARRY."

                   #MY_RESPONSE 
It's imperative you marry someone you love.

Love doesn't grow on wedding night.

You may not love the person who proposes to you, as a sister, but before you give a yes to the proposal, be sure you have prayed yourself in if you know he's the will of God for you truly.

As a brother, l don't understand how you want to propose to someone you don't love. 

If you are in courtship with someone you don't love, definitely, something is wrong with you.

In similitude, you don't have a choice, you must love the person you are married to if you want to have peace and enjoy your marriage. 

In between, it's God's commands _ love your wife... Honour your husband (you can't honour who you don't love).

Don't enter a marriage covenant with someone you don't love

No, don't even start a courtship with someone you don't love.

God doesn't command such.

He might lead you to someone you don't "love" but if He's the One truly leading you, He will also make you love him/her on the long run.

Adam wasn't married to Eve when he saw her, but before he took her in, after God revealed her to him, before the consummation, Adam loved her and recognized then proclaimed "This is the bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh, she shall be called woman bcos she was taken out of the man (of me)."

When Isaac saw Rebecca, he loved her before taking her into his mother's chamber and "knew her." 

I hope you all understand better.

You won't marry someone you don't love from your heart. If it happens, everything is wrong with such a fellow.

Segun Okeowo AJAYI © King David's Pen 🖋️

#loveyou 
#loveislove 
#LoveChallenge 
#marriage 

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