THE MANNER OF APPROACH MATTERS

THE MANNER OF APPROACH MATTERS 

  Be an influencer in the life of your husband.

It's good to have a good wife and good to give listening ears to one's wife's good suggestions.

Above these, the approach and manner of a wife when giving good suggestions to her husband are very important.

At the first attempt, he might decline, don't begin to nag or heep insults on him or go cold because he declines your suggestions. Take one or more steps, meditatively and prayerfully, approach him again and see how influential you could be in your husband's life.

I have heard some people telling me that only Yoruba women kneel down😏😏😏 to greet or apologize or make requests and I will keep telling them, that's not true.

If a sitting governor's wife, State first lady, who is not a Yoruba woman and husband not a Yoruba man, could kneel down, over and over, to her husband, to get her request, thereby melting her husband's heart as he sheepishly danced to her tone, then I don't know why it's difficult to win your husband over to yourself in humility instead of nagging, insulting , etcetera that your husband doesn't listen to you.

By the way, since they said non-Yoruba women don't kneel down or because some women feel they are too big to kneel down for their husbands, why is it that they kneel down when making requests from God?

Okay, your husband is not your God, right? You do not well and disobey the God of the Bible you are carrying, sisters, for as Christ is the Head of the church, EVEN SO, is the husband the head of his wife. 

By the way, did you kneel down to your husband on your wedding day (traditional or at reception)? You did? But it's now a crime to do so as his wife at home? 

If you kneel down for your pastor or prophet or apostle but can't kneel down for your husband, you are a hypocrite, ma'am, except your husband has told you he doesn't want such from you, that's a different case entirely. 

       MANNER OF APPROACH MATTERS.

KEY: Be an influencer in the life of your husband.

Segun Okeowo AJAYI © King David's Pen 🖋️

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