COURTSHIP PROCESSES

Yesterday, I learnt about a particular denomination in Ghana where once a brother and a sister officially start their courtship, it will be announced on the altar by the Pastor and he (the pastor) will emphatically tell all other sisters and brothers to stay away from any form of mindset towards any of them on marriage.

If on the long-run, for any reason beyond control, the courtship heads to the rock, it will be announced again that they're no more in courtship with stated reason(s) to the congregation and if such reason(s) warrants discipline on any or both of them, it will be announced. 

  I THINK I LOVE THIS PERSONALLY. WHY?
1. It helps to contain those 'brother' or 'sister' who will be in courtship and still not let other single brothers and sisters breathe 😁

2. Just as the pastor will announce, other single brothers and sisters searching will stay away from them except they want something else like deliverance of the emotion 😁
      WHAT SAYEST THOU ABOUT THIS?
Let the courting brothers and sisters breathe

            Segun Okeowo AJAYI
           
© King David's Pen 🖋️

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